I wonder what you think about when you hear the mention of strip clubs, ‘massage’ parlours or escort services, and what your feelings are about pornography. Were you aware, for instance, that prostitution involves 40-42 million women worldwide, 75% of whom are aged between 13 to 25 years of age? Of these girls and women, 90 percent have a pimp or other person controlling them (Report by Fondation Scelles, 2012). Did you also know that the average age of the first exposure to porn is 11 years? (Johnson et al, 2015). Quite scary really when you consider that the most widely viewed porn contains violence, degradation and the humiliation of women.
I’m going to run through some findings which have emerged from the research into prostitution and pornography in order to give you a better understanding of the human impact of the sex industry:
Prostitution
- Prostitution involves the objectification, dehumanisation and commodification of women
Prostitution exists on the basis that men can pay to have access to a woman in order to satisfy his sexual urges. In paying for such a ‘service’ the woman’s body becomes a commodity or an object for his pleasure. Once a certain class or group of women are seen as objects, it’s much easier to treat them without any regard for their safety, well-being or feelings. The person being used as an object loses their humanity, and who they are as a person is ignored or forgotten. A prime example of objectification is the Red Light District in Amsterdam, where you’ll see sex workers standing in full-length windows barely clothed, with men on stag nights or boys’ holidays queueing up outside. Most of these women were trafficked by criminal gangs from Southeast Asia, Africa and Eastern Europe with the promise of a better life, only to find themselves abused and exploited.
- Women who are prostituted are vulnerable
Numerous studies have found that an average of 43 – 69 percent of women who enter prostitution were sexually abused as children or adolescents (Bengley and Young, 1987; Bolton, 1992; Dworkin, 1997; Farley et al, 1998). The most likely explanation for this would be that children who were sexually abused develop psychologically and emotionally in ways that make them more vulnerable to further abuse, and more likely to engage in risky behaviours. Poverty, homelessness, lack of education, unemployment and drug addiction generally act as an entry into prostitution.
- Prostitution is a form of sexual and physical violence against women
Studies have found very high rates of violence in prostitution, including rape and physical assault. A study by Farley et al (2003), carried out across 9 countries, showed that the majority of prostitutes had experienced severe forms of violence, 68 percent of whom suffered from Post Traumatic Stress Disorder to the severity experienced by Vietnam war veterans. Methods of sexual coercion include minimisation or denial of violence, economical exploitation, verbal abuse, threats, intimidation and assault. One woman who worked in a strip club described having her legs, buttocks, breasts and crotch grabbed by men, leaving her bruised and in pain. She also described feeling repeatedly humiliated with verbal taunts and threats if she didn’t do as the men asked. Quite ironic really that strip clubs are often referred to as ‘Gentlemen’s Clubs’.
- Prostitution results in emotional trauma
The experience of prostitution is that of being hunted, dominated, harassed and assaulted. Over time, the degradation and humiliation experienced by these women produces a core sense of self-hatred. Prostitution has been found to cause depression, dissociative disorder and other mood disorders. Dissociation occurs as women mentally disconnect to attempt to protect themselves from the trauma caused by repetitive sexual encounters with strangers.
Pornography
When it comes to pornography, a number of similar themes emerge, all of which have implications on an individual, human level and for society as a whole. A large proportion of porn contains violence, degradation and the humiliation of women. Keeping in mind that the average age of persons viewing porn for the first time is 11, the sexual script boys and girls are being socialised into is quite a disturbing one. Whilst boys are being taught that the degradation, objectification and humiliation of women is an acceptable aspect of their masculinity, girls are learning that this is a script that they need to mould themselves into.
A 2014 report (Schrimshaw et al, 2016) concluded that pornography has a significant impact on real-life sexual encounters, with an entire generation of young people growing up to believe that what they see in hardcore porn is what should be replicated in real-life. A link was found between viewing unprotected sex and engaging in it.
Since porn gives a very unrealistic view of real-life sex, a natural consequence has been that regular viewers of porn find real-life encounters less stimulating and enjoyable. A study by Johnson et al, 2015 found that men who watched more porn relied on conjuring up porn images during sex to maintain arousal. A similar study by the NHS in 2014 found a significant rise in erectile dysfunction in otherwise healthy young men and concluded excessive porn use to be the cause. On a deeper level, an increased reliance on porn over real-life encounters and relationships increases feelings of isolation and loneliness.
Apart from the effects of porn on consumers, the negative effects of porn don’t end there. The industry itself involves a global supply chain including connections to prostitution, human trafficking, child porn, violence and drugs. This global industry profits from the bodies of men, women and children, many of whom have been recruited from vulnerable sectors of society. These include homeless and substance abuse shelters, foster homes and communities marred by poverty. Furthermore, substance abuse tends to dominate the lives of those working in the sex industry, as they’re used as a means of dissociating from the traumatic impact of the encounters partake in.
After reading this article, you may be wondering what difference having this information will make. As individuals, our contribution can be significant. For instance, anyone who works with or has children of their own could make use of any parental controls available to limit children’s access to pornographic content. Age-appropriate discussions with children about the importance of respectful, consensual relationships is also important, as is educating young people about the realities of the sex industry. Most of all, we can allow this knowledge to guide our personal choices, ensuring that whatever we decide, it’s based on an informed and realistic understanding of the sex industry and its impact on people.
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Psychotherapist Danjela Falzon works with clients suffering from anxiety and depression, relationship issues, sexuality, personality disorders, self-esteem issues and those wishing to work on self-development. She forms part of the team at TherapyWorks Clinic. For more information visit https://www.therapyworks.com.mt/