Relationships

Let’s chat about something that’s at the heart of every strong relationship: communication. Whether with your partner, family, friends, or even colleagues, how we talk (and listen) can make or break our connections. So, let’s dive into some tips and techniques to boost your communication skills and build stronger bonds! Why Communication Matters Effective communication isn’t just about talking. It’s about understanding and being understood. When we communicate well, we can express our needs, share our thoughts, and connect on a deeper level. Misunderstandings, on the other hand, can lead to conflicts, hurt feelings, and a whole lot of frustration. Tips for Better Communication 1.Read More…

Abuse manifests in various forms, and non-physical abuse can be equally damaging. Recognising the signs and understanding the impact of non-physical abuse is crucial for identifying and addressing abusive relationships. What is Non-Physical Abuse? Non-physical abuse, often termed coercive control, includes patterns of manipulation, intimidation, and threatening behaviour used to terrorise the other party. While physical abuse is more widely recognised, emotional abuse can be just as debilitating. Emotional abuse starts subtly, with small, infrequent incidents that may not initially seem abusive. Over time, these actions escalate, creating a state of constant fear and control. Common Forms of Non-Physical Abuse Recognising the Signs and FindingRead More…

Reaching sexual climax isn’t just about feeling good; it’s a well-coordinated dance that happens inside us, involving our whole selves. It all begins with a rush of blood to the genital area, which makes the erectile tissues there swell up. And yes, this happens for everyone, not just guys. This is a big reason why things feel so intense and why we’re all particularly responsive in those moments. As we get closer to the peak, it’s as if our body turns up the dial on everything. Our heart beats faster, our blood pressure rises, and we start breathing more quickly. Every part of us isRead More…

Let’s explore the world of online dating, a realm where Cupid has traded in his arrows for algorithms and where the quest for love is just a swipe away. Whether you’re a seasoned swiper or new to the digital dating scene, our essential online dating tips will guide you through navigating these modern waters of romance. The Digital Meet-Cute: Finding Love in a Swipe Remember the days when meeting someone meant accidentally bumping into them at a bookstore or locking eyes across a crowded room? Well, welcome to 2024, where finding a date can be as easy as ordering a pizza – convenient, but withRead More…

In the tapestry of life, relationships are the intricate threads that weave through experiences, shaping our journeys in profound ways. At times when we find ourselves in connections that no longer serve our well-being. These relationships, though once meaningful, may now weigh heavy on our hearts, hindering growth and happiness. In such instances, the courageous act of letting go becomes essential for our own flourishing.Read More…

BDSM

‘BDSM’ refers to a range of sexual activities that can be grouped into three categories: B and D or bondage and discipline, D and S, domination and submission and S and M, sadism and masochism. In recent years the trilogy ‘Fifty Shades of Grey’ books seemed to cause renewed interest in kink and BDSM practices. However, those in BDSM communities quickly distanced themselves from fifty shades of grey phenomenon, as its depiction of kink borders heavily on the dangerous and abusive and is incompatible with informed, uncoerced and enthusiastic consent. BDSM practices include very diverse sexual practices and personae. The scenes played out in thisRead More…

don't try to change me

I have always been in touch with my masculine side, which has allowed me to form close-knit, platonic friendships with men. Being a woman, I can confidently say that having male best friends helped shape who I am today, providing me with some of the richest and most meaningful friendships I’ve had to date. Over my 34 years of life, I’ve accumulated a handful of close male friends from my college years right up to the present day. I believe that certain social ideologies trigger insecurities that make men and women feel threatened by wives or husbands who have close relationships with members of theRead More…